Letter 18: What's Love Got to Do With It?

Review:
Gluttony of Excess and Gluttony of Delicacy

 Outline:
  • God demands either complete abstinence or unmitigated monogamy.
  • Satan has made the first very difficult over time.
  • Working on the latter by making "being in love" a requirement for marriage; so when no longer in love, no longer married.
  • Satan claims that everything is in competition, and absorbing the weaker.
  • God uses what appears to be a contradiction: many, yet one. "the organism" many parts are made to cooperate.
  • Looks at two philosophies as they pertain to Sex
    1. The demons' in which the stronger preys on the weaker.
    2. In God's they become a family, reproduction is part of this.
  • Sexual Intercourse is significant.
  • "Being in Love" should result from a marriage, not cause a marriage.
  • Demons use confusion of above for two advantages:
    1. People who are not "in love" will avoid marriage, even though they can not control themselves.
    2. "Being in love" can be used as an excuse to marry someone outside of God's will.
Terminology:
  • Unmitigated - opposite of mitigated (to make less harsh or hostile, less severe).
  • Axiom - a statement generally accepted as true, proposition accepted as self-evident truth
  • Panacea - a remedy for all ills or difficulties
  • Eulogies - plural of eulogy, a speech in praise of some person or thing; high praises.
  • Continence - self-restraint; voluntarily refraining from sexual intercourse.
  • Wanton - lewd or immoral.
Questions/Discussions:
  • This could be one of the tougher Letters to discuss. Especially in mixed company.
  • What do you think is meant by "our Father's first great victory"?
  • "What's love got to do with it?"
  • Why should we not fornicate whenever we feel "in love" ? 1 Corinthians 6:12-20
  • Can the love disappear from a from a relationship? Matthew 19:1-12
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